How do you become pretty/attractive? How does one be the girl lots of people seem to like? I am a nice person, but some people think I’m not pretty.

Ok,so people here gave some advices about how you should be confident and blah blah.

Seriously there are three kinds of women.Attractive,average and ugly.

If you are ugly,you can become average.

If you are average you can become attractive.

But if you are ugly you can do whatever you want you never be attractive.

Now someone would put knife on my throat for saying someone is "ugly".

But I just try to be realistic here. Not going to feed you some shit which is not real although it sounds good.

When you know someone who is attractive you can observe that they all have few things in common...

A/Pretty face

B/Sexy body

C/Straight confident posture

D/Well,dressed for their body type

E/Perfect hair cut and hair colour

F/Beautiful white teeth &  gorgeous smile

This is the first things people will perceive about anyone. Before they find out anything else. And people make opinions about you in first seconds of meeting you, or seeing you. So these things are important.

Lets take a closer look at those points.

PRETTY FACE

There are women who have that perfect harmony in their face,beautiful eyes, full lips, nice cheekbones.

But if you have just one of those, thats what you play with. You have to learn to do make up nicely. And learn how to bring attention to the parts which are the most attractive on your face.

SEXY BODY

There is not one type of what sexy body mean. There is many sexy bodies in this world and the thing they have generally common is that they are healthy bodies.

No matter what,you have to star to exercise. It can cost you nothing.There is already millions of youtube videos to make workouts at home for free. If you can afford it, then sign to a gym.  This is a MUST. For many reasons,not only your body,but as well mental health.

STRAIGHT CONFIDENT POSTURE

There is no need to say more.You have to be straight.That is first sign of confidence. Enough said..

WELL DRESSED FOR BODY TYPE

What is the part of your body which is the best part?

Do you have nice legs? Stomach ? Chest? Hands?

If you just answered nothing, then yep,back to the exercise point and with some effort in few months you might answer different.

You have to find out how to match clothes. How to play with colours,cuts and materials to enhance your features.

You can use the wrong colours and look like grey mouse,or you can choose the right colours and make your skin shine.

You can use the right cut to cover the parts which are not perfect, or you can choose the wrong cut and colour to exactly make that non perfect part be the most visible.

I worked in clothing sales before, and I can not even tell you, how many times I was face palming seeing what garments people would pick. Many time the opposite of what was actually good for them. I always felt so sorry they spend money on that,because if was for nothing. It made nothing for them.

PERFECT HAIR

Do not get caught in the word "perfect". It doesn't mean it must be a hairdo. Actually that is not that attractive.

Your hair should be as natural as it can be. If you choose to colour, that colour should look as well natural. No crazy hair lighting,which looks like yellow stripes in hair. No out-grown roots either. No fake extensions.

Check for a herbal teas which are good for hairs. Get a good haircut. Generaly long hair are always sexy,so let them grow. And just make adjustments around your face. If you have high forehead get a fringe. If you have round face,get it cut so it prolongs it and so on... You can play even with bit of natural hair lights around face area. This all will help for your beautiful features to come out.

WHITE TEETH

There is not one person who is attractive with bad teeth. It is just not. This is hard as if you have ugly teeth it is very expensive to make something about it. But if you could afford it,I would do. There is nothing more sexy then a beautiful smile, showing white,healthy pearls ..If you want to be average thats ok, but if you want to be attractive is a no-no..

When you master all of it, then the rest will come naturally.

You will get compliments,your confidence will rise. You will feel more confident talk to people and people will want to befriend you so you become more popular and that again will rise more confidence. It is a circle.

It is just how it is but people always want to befriend those who are attractive and popular and confident. Men will want to date you. And you might do better in your life generally. As it is even know attractive people have higher salaries..etc..

It is not possible other way around. To talk yourself into being confident if you are not happy with yourself. It is just not going to work...

BUT...

You can have all of that above and you can become instantly less attractive if you have bad personality. 

If you are egocentric, self-absorbed b.tch who only cares about her looks.

The above should only be a guidance for yourself, how to become more appealing that you feel more confident.

But you should always stay down to earth, have sense of humour,be helpful to others,have a kind heart, be polite,have some goals in life which are more then being attractive,be honest and be a good communicator.

Without that you be never attractive enough...